Redefining Consistency by Embracing Authenticity and Balance

In a world that often glorifies relentless daily grind, I’m here to shake the table and redefine consistency. I’ve learned that it’s essential to recognize that true consistency for me as a creator isn't about robotically putting out content day after day. Instead, it's about finding a rhythm that aligns with my life, values, and creative process. So today, I’m sharing five things I'm normalizing as I continually redefine consistency, and perhaps they will set you free, too.

1. Consistency Doesn't Have to Mean Daily

In the era of social media, there's often pressure to post or share content every single day. But here's the reality: life can be hectic, and our schedules are too. I've come to understand that consistency doesn't have to mean daily updates. Being authentic and not robotic is paramount to building genuine connections with my community. If your plate doesn't allow for daily posting, that's perfectly okay, despite what social media gurus may say. What matters is the quality and authenticity of your content, not the frequency. Yes, show up, but show up for you first.

2. Allocate Time for Breaks

In the quest for consistency, it's easy to forget the importance of breaks. Burnout is a real concern when you're constantly pushing yourself to create. I've learned that allocating time for breaks isn't a sign of weakness—it's a sign of wisdom. Stepping back, recharging, and taking care of your mental and physical well-being are essential components of maintaining long-term consistency. For me this means, I may post 4-5 times a week and take the weekend off. I’m willing to do this even if this means I may not grow as fast because I’m focused on sustainability, not rushing to the next level.

3. Allow Yourself to Be Inspired Offline

Creativity often flourishes when we disconnect from the digital world and immerse ourselves in the real one. I've found that inspiration can strike at unexpected times and in unexpected places. In fact, I get so much inspiration from my daily life — from conversations with my kids to adventures on travel, and more. To enhance your online presence, allow yourself to be fully present offline. Go to new places, engage in hobbies, meet up with friends, read books, try a new recipe and explore your surroundings. These experiences can provide so much inspiration to infuse into your online content.

4. Prioritize Clarity

Before diving headfirst into consistency, ensure you have a clear vision and purpose for your content. Without clarity, you may find yourself running in circles, trying to please everyone and losing sight of your true goals. Take the time to define your niche, audience, and message. Clarity will serve as your North Star, guiding your creative or professional journey with purpose and focus.

5. Consistency Requires Thought, Strategy, and Planning

Consistency isn't a random act; it's a deliberate effort. To maintain a consistent online presence, invest in thought, strategy, and planning. Set achievable goals (heavy on achievable), create content calendars, and establish a workflow that suits your style. By approaching consistency with intention, you'll be better equipped to deliver content that resonates with your audience and aligns with your overarching vision.


By normalizing these practices, my goal is not to just maintain my online presence but also to thrive creatively. Authenticity, balance, and a well-defined purpose will set you on a path where your consistency is a reflection of your passion and values rather than a robotic routine.

How do you define consistency? Let me know in the comments.

Have a glowing day!